Four of Cups

Meaning

This card means that you should be aware of the current opportunities in your relationship and not miss them.

Tarot Reading

The man in the photo is leaning against a tree, with a bored expression on his face. His eyes are tightly closed and his arms are crossed in front of his chest in a defensive posture. Three cups are placed in front of him side by side, symbolizing his past experiences. He stares in silence, representing his inability to extricate himself from his previous experiences. A cup sticking out of the cloud stands for a new opportunity. However, this passive and withdrawn man easily declines. For him, there seems to be no hobby left in life. He shows complete indifference and apathy to everything.

Conjecture

The Four of Cups represents the moments of negativity, boredom, exhaustion and retreat. The person in question is unmotivated, indifferent to everything, and does not want to participate in social activities. Sometimes the Four of Cups also stands for an affair and the coming of new opportunities.

Four of Cups Upright Meaning

Core Meanings of the Card

Keywords: Meditation, contemplation, deep thought, gazing, silent gazing, apathy, indifference, evaluation, consumption, reevaluation, feeling depressed and helpless, nothing to cheer oneself up

Love & Marriage

Keywords: Having a lot of new invitations, ignoring them all, being bored, feeling lonely, indifferent, shutting out your lover, unwilling to express your true feelings, unwilling to open up your heart

Basically, it is a good relationship, but you are still not satisfied. Maybe you should make full use of the happiness you have now, and it’s better not to think too much.

It is unlikely that there will be a new relationship now. Because your requirements for relationships are too high, a realm that no one can achieve, this fantastic relationship is unlikely to be realized.

You are not very satisfied with this relationship, and think there is still room for improvement. As a matter of fact, sometimes your standards are too high, and there is not really anything wrong with it.

Neither of you has a strong drive to get back together, so there won’t be any real action. Maybe let this relationship fade away. It’s good for both sides.

Career & Education

Keywords: Can’t get excited, no motivation, missed a lot of opportunities, it doesn’t matter whether the result is good or bad

You are tired of your current job and would like to stop and take a break. You are dissatisfied with the status quo, but you feel powerless.

This is a stable job, but it is not very promising in the future. You can take it as an opportunity to learn, or when you have a good opportunity, you can take it as a springboard to leave.

Your performance in school is average. But you expect more from yourself than this, so you feel dissatisfied and even a little angry with your performance.

At this point, you should not be too hard on yourself. Give yourself more time to rest and think, maybe you’ll find better ways to improve your efficiency.

Relationships & Wealth

Keywords: No matter who you play with, you feel bored, you are physically and mentally exhausted, you don’t want to socialize, you act like you don’t care about other people’s lives, you like to stay at home, you don’t want to accept invitations

You have some close friends at present, but this situation does not satisfy you. You often want to make other new friends, but lack the practical action to do so.

Basically, many problems are imagined by you, so do not worry about these things. As long as you can treat his problems sincerely, conflicts will definitely be resolved.

You’ve built a good foundation financially, but it’s not quite where you want it to be, and it’s time to re-examine whether you’re planning properly.

Four of Cups Reversed Meaning

Core Meanings of the Card

Keywords: Longing for an opportunity and not having one, needing a new start, looking for that glimmer of hope, suddenly realizing something, retreating, pulling out, leaving, departing, receding, backing off, changing your mind, shrinking back, withdrawing, retracting, retrieving, no longer participating, withdrawing from the organization, drawing money from a bank, taking money, checking

Love & Marriage

Keywords: There is no suitable time to find the intersection with each other, suffering from the lack of common topics, tempting to approach the other party

Now that the relationship has entered a new stage of development, both sides actually have the ability to improve the way of getting along. In addition to the vision, you should also put forward more concrete methods.

Now it is possible to have a new relationship, and it is with a new acquaintance. Since things are a little out of your comfort zone, it may not be comfortable at first.

Because the other party is too passive, many things in the relationship do not seem so perfect. If the other party is willing to take the initiative, the relationship will be absolutely different.

In fact, it is completely impossible to get back together in this relationship. There is no benefit for each other to be together again. It would be better to pursue a new relationship, and that would be more realistic.

Career & Education

Keywords: Discover new ways, find new opportunities, get out of the doldrums, find new platforms

Major changes are about to take place and new opportunities will emerge. You can get out of the status quo you are unhappy with if you can take advantage of this opportunity.

This job will have good prospects in the future, but it’s not obvious yet. You can try to continue working here, and maybe you can find a new direction.。

You are relatively fast at learning new things, but not so good at things you have learned before. It would be helpful for you to spend some time reviewing.

You can spend time studying before class and have a basic understanding of what you are to learn, so that you can absorb it quickly when you attend class.

Relationships & Wealth

Keywords: Hope to make some new friends, like to attend parties, like to communicate with each other, wish to integrate into a certain circle

You have a good relationship at present, and you will meet many new friends recently. If you can get along well with them, it will bring you a lot of pleasure.

You may know why your friend misunderstand you, but many things are just guesses without proof. You can go directly to ask for proof and clarification, it will be more helpful.

Your financial position is not bad, but the foundation is not very solid. Now you should have new ideas and practices. Doing so will help you grow better in the future.